So, here's the deal I became a mom at the age of 21, 23, and 26 that makes a total of three babies before the age of thirty. So having two more at 30 and forty-something was never in the cards for me. Nonetheless, I have learned life has a way of making sure I learn new things as I got used to aging with all of my children. This is a story about a woman (me) finding the positive about being a 40 something mom, the good the bad, sad, and the balancing of it all. 

 Oh hello Sunday, so glad to be here. Hope all is wonderful with you beautiful people on today? I am probably halfway to Barbados by the time you read this. 

Ok in my dreams I am there. But who cares its Sunday and I just may be at my favorite Market right now eating pig sausages and watching all the weird stuff people buy and sell.

The Little Joys Of Life

Last week I was reminiscing about my life and where I came from. I was thinking about those hard days some brought on by others but most created by me. But, I quickly had to remind myself how I made it through the fire, rain, and brimstone. As much as I want to believe sad days and rough times make people stronger and it should. I've come to a conclusion who wants to stay in an unhappy and joyless situation. Life is not all about sparkles and glitz, but it is about the list we all decided to create for ourselves. The Joyful List is about celebrating the small little joys in and out of life. I do not write on bits and babbles fluffy stories this my truth and my reality. 

Good morning everybody! Last week I found a super cute leather jacket that will go great with a pair of leggings in the fall. I know its too early for that type of talk. But, when you see a good deal at your local consignment shop, its best to grab it right away.

I couldn't find a set of earrings to match my new jacket. So, guess what I did? I bought all the materials I needed to make myself a pair of zipper earrings to match my original purchase. Ultimately, I can't say they are exactly what I wanted, but hey they look unique, and they indeed were easy to make. 

Positive Self Talk

Hello Everybody! Who woke up this morning in a terrific mood? You know that feeling that makes you hit the floor singing Oh Happy Days. 

Well, I am sharing a few happy thoughts that we all can use right now.

I can not speak for anyone else in the world when it comes to waking up feeling bushy-tailed and happy all the time. But I can share my views as to waking up on the right side of the bed. One thing I have learned about life is that it does become simpler if  I push toward the beautiful parts of life.

Disclaimer: I am not a psychiatrist or professional, Dr., but I do have a P.h.d for spending many years sad and unhappy. So there you have it my street cred for being on the struggle bus, and I promise I am qualified. I've bought the shirt, worn it and now its time to burn it. Ok, I smoked it a few years ago. :}

There is something brewing in the air, and it is not Santa Claus in the middle of July. What I do know is that it is 100 degrees right now in Texas, and all I want is a cherry-berry snow cone. 

Nonetheless, I know you may be wondering what this post is all about, and I assure you have read the title correctly. After going to several stores, I couldn't help but notice Christmas stuff is hitting the shelves left and right. Oh No! I am not ready, although I could go for a little snow on the rooftop and roasted marshmallows over an open fire. 

Today I am sharing my desire to cut and color my hair.
 Change Is Good! But why is change so scary? Why is it easier to do the same thing, eat the same food, or wear the same outfit day in and day out? Those are the questions I ask myself every day. Why am I so afraid of making new changes. Over the last few weeks, I've had an aha moment in my life. It required addressing my fears and dealing with the small things in life. For example, why did it take me six months to realize I wanted to change my hair color and style? Or try on a new dress that was entirely out of my comfort zone?